Pausing for a moment when things don’t seem perfect 


It can be difficult, especially this time of year, to appreciate the less than perfect moments (and people) in our lives.  Long before there was Inviting Interiors we had a small Counseling Company called One Life Coaching.  During this time we learned so much about communication and appreciating the potential in others.  As we learn to appreciate the unique qualities of those around us, we are better able to see the potential in the spaces and places we inhabit.


Take, for example, a tree. A tree that has grown in a less-than-ideal environment may have branches that twist and turn in unusual ways. It may have scars from previous damage, or knots that interrupt the flow of its bark. However, we don't see these as flaws. Instead, we call them "character".   We appreciate the way the way the tree has adapted to its surroundings and the marks that tell its story.

Similarly, we should also learn to appreciate the oddities in ourselves and others. Rather than striving for perfection, we should embrace our quirks and differences. It's our unique experiences and perspectives that make us who we are, and we should celebrate that.

Learning to appreciate oddities can also lead to personal growth. When we accept our imperfections, we become more comfortable in our own skin. We can focus less on trying to fit into a certain mold and more on being true to ourselves. This allows us to pursue our passions and goals with more confidence and authenticity.

Let's take a lesson from the tree and learn to appreciate the oddities in ourselves and others. Embracing our imperfections can lead to greater self-acceptance, personal growth, and a more creative life. So the next time you see a tree with an unusual branch or knot, remember that it's just adding to its character – and the same goes for you.


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